If you two have engaged in any sexual activity, you could send your adult paramour to jail.
Some states base the penalty for violations on the age of the offender, with older offenders receiving harsher penalties.
However, the potential harm caused by sexting goes far beyond the social stigma. These offenses carry severe penalties, including a permanent criminal record, sex offender registration, and imprisonment for up to 20 years for juveniles who are charged as adults. Advocates argue that such harsh consequences are grossly disproportionate to the harm caused by consensual teen sexting and many states have created new laws to address the problem. If convicted of sexual exploitation of a minor ( child pornography), the teens, who were in a dating relationship, would have faced mandatory sex offender registration. The case generated widespread criticism of North Carolina’s treatment of minors who engage in sexting, particularly 16 and 17 year olds who are automatically prosecuted as adults. That is, they can be criminally charged for creating, possessing, or distributing child pornography when they take nude photos of themselves and share them with others. The National Conference of State Legislatures reported that since 2009, at least 20 states have passed legislation that treats underage sexting differently from child pornography.
A growing number of teens in NC and across the nation are facing criminal charges for sexting. However, they both pled guilty to a reduced charge of disseminating harmful material to minors, a misdemeanor which was dismissed after they successfully completed a term of probation under a deferred prosecution agreement. States that have passed sexting legislation recognize that even the consensual sharing of sexually explicit images of minors is harmful but generally treat the offense as a misdemeanor with relatively light punishments, such as fines, counseling, community service, and out of court diversion programs. Patchin, , Cyberbullying Research Center, visited Feb. Most sexting laws also apply only when all the parties involved are minors under 18 and they include graduated sanctions.
10 to 25 years in prison with a mandatory minimum of five years if the victim is between age 10 and 16 and 10 years if the victim is under age 10.
The combined sentence and special parole must equal at least 10 years(1) Fixed term of 10 years with up to 10 years added or four subtracted for aggravating and mitigating circumstances or (2) if the offender actor is at least age 21, a fixed term of 30 years, with up to 20 years added or 10 subtracted.