The player makes like a dollar bill on the end of a fishing line. I'll admit, "consistent inconsistency" has led to many a girls' night spent attempting to crack the code.He can enhance his game by flirting with other girls (flirting with her friends annoys her even more).It seems that the dating world is full of guys being overly cool and girls being uncommonly cold.How then, can we find our perfect match if both guys and girls try their best to seem uninterested?
It’s time for us lowly (opposite gender) to start fighting back, protecting ourselves, and getting ours every once in a while!
I gave him space when he needed it, was careful not to call too often, and more or less stayed away from (as my best male friend put it) “any psycho girlfriend moves.” Then, seemingly out of nowhere, on a sunny Thursday afternoon, I received The Breakup Call.
When I complained about this turn of events to a good friend, she told me I’d been “too available” throughout our relationship.
They’re other players, to be held at emotional arms-length, outsmarted, and beaten.
Viewing romance, dating, even casual sex as a game is a way of taking something that could be co-operative and uplifting, and turning it into a battlefield in which some win… It’s when guys are focused on choosing words they think will subconsciously suggest that their date give them a blowjob, when they could instead just focus on, well, connecting with them, a human predisposed to spontaneously engaging in acts of enthusiastic sexuality of their own volition!